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Does going out match coming in?

January 17, 20125 Comments

Not sure why this subject/title presented itself but I guess I will find out.  Often times, I close my eyes and still myself waiting for a title or what a post will be about.  Sometimes I am intentional but most often I practice trust that what needs to come for others will come without having to know.

This is a good question though.  Does what you put out into the universe and what you give to others match what you are receiving from the universe and from others?  If not, there might be something out of alignment.

I have found that receiving can be harder for most people than giving.  Giving might be something that feels comfortable while receiving feels uncomfortable.  If this is the case, practicing receiving, whether it is a compliment, a nice gesture, etc…is extremely beneficial for receiving the gifts that you want from the universe.  The gifts that you deserve that are yours.  The gifts that are coming to you

I am hearing quite often these days that what people are perceiving is not matching up with what they would like to perceive.  If you see something you don’t like, change the picture, the image, the feeling inside to something you do like.  This is how energy gets shifted instantaneously.    In a world of instant gratification, I will take more of this please!  In the moment of seeing or experiencing something that doesn’t feel of your vibration, create a picture of what it is that does feel more in tune with what you want.  Keep this image in your mind and believe that what you are seeing or imagining is possible and can come to be otherwise you would not be able to imagine it.

This is how things shift globally, one person at a time.  It is like a happy meal, I will take a few of those.  If everyone who ate at McDonald’s did this, Millions of people in one day would change the energy on the planet.  Wonder what the toy will be inside?! The surprise gift is yours to find…

5 Comments

  1. Crystal Rohmsays: January 21, 2012 at 2:53 am

    Hi Randy – very thought provoking words. We watched your interaction with your mom over Skype on the selling of your family’s home episode tonight. We were so impressed with your kind words for your mother and the encouragement you showed her. We googled to find out what you were doing these days. I can tell you have a gift for inspiring others. We plan on reviewing your website further and certainly have experienced much of what you describe in your post. Happy New Year to you.

  2. Pfillupsays: January 23, 2012 at 3:57 am

    Very inspirational message from a young adult. Why does it seem so simple?

  3. Diannasays: February 2, 2012 at 12:55 am

    I needed to read this and find you today. This is exactly what I am feeling. I feel like I give, give, and give and yet I don’t get the same back. I have people in my life that are not as giving, and yet, their life is on a silver platter. I wrestle with annomosity, jealousy and unfairness towards all the time. But in reading this, and going through your website, I’ve learned, it isn’t them, it’s me. I live on the East Coast but will check back as often as possible for more inspiration!

  4. Soniasays: February 14, 2012 at 2:10 pm

    I heard a tape recording of Marianne Williamson years ago and this one statement keeps ringing in my head, “what you put into the world will come back to you ten-fold”. There are times when I look back and reflect on decisions I have made and thought, “why did you do that”, when I knew better. Everyday is a new day to make new choices and change bad habits. Thank you for reminding me that no matter what I can change who I am today and will be tomorrow. We talked years ago on the phone and it led me to where I am now. Thank you!

  5. Gloriasays: February 17, 2012 at 3:32 am

    Hi Randy,
    Have you always been a deep person? You seem to be a very happy person and I’m guessing that material items are not as important to you. Your family is your everything … am I right?
    Wishing eternal happiness for you and your family!
    Gloria

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