About

LIFE COACH RANDY SPELLING

LIFE COACH

Hey, I’m Randy Spelling, the founder and Head Happiness Honcho here at Randy Spelling Coaching.

I’ve been working with people for over a decade, helping them live better lives, reach new levels of success and find lasting happiness. I’m not just a coach. Or a strategist. I’m a passionate practitioner of Change and Result. I help you get out of your own way and infuse your life with purpose and passion.

I’ve had to reverse engineer my life (a powerful strategy that will help you achieve your deepest desires from life). I was born in Los Angeles, CA to one of the most well known Hollywood families in the entertainment business. I had money, celebrity, and success. And then…what else? There was more, always more.

But I was unaware of how to fill this void. And believe me, I tried to fill it with every external thing imaginable (more on that in my book!). It felt like there was some mysterious element that was missing. I wanted to be fulfilled, not live by the expectations of others. Society’s definitions of success and happiness were fine, except they didn’t leave me feeling successful or happy.

I struggled to find my way, crawling through low self-esteem and not knowing my deeper purpose. After my father’s death and some near death experiences of my own, at age 27, I set out on a mission to “find” myself and understand what it takes to reach real happiness, how to transform low self-esteem, minimize anxiety and overwhelm, and what leads to a truly fulfilled, connected life.

I became a credentialed life coach while continuing to dig through transpersonal psychology, spirituality, higher performance and basically the entire self-help section of Barnes & Nobles! After thousands of hours searching for how to stop being dragged around by my life, but rather become the leader in my life, I landed in the last place I ever thought to look – within! And this revolutionized my life.

I became more confident about who I was and how I showed up in the world. I felt purposeful on a daily basis and connecting with people in a much deeper way. Fulfillment and success became by-products .

I began speaking and working with hundreds of people, helping them achieve far more than they ever dreamed possible! And now I’m here to share these simple strategies to achieve a lifetime of Happiness with YOU!

One of the biggest lessons I learned on my journey is: Stress and overwhelm is an alert that the way you are living your life is out of balance.

Something is off, and you are getting the signals through your body. You may be wonderful and giving to others, but can’t seem to do what you already know works, for yourself. This type of self-work identifies and uses your own internal wisdom, coupled with tools I will give you, to reach the place you know in your heart you want to be, but just haven’t been able to get to!

You might be wondering what I do outside of coaching and strategizing?

Not much else!

I am always growing from everyday life, studying and learning from each experience.

Being a father and a husband—great relationship dynamics to study!

Being social (or introverted)—the self-esteem litmus test for many of us.

When I am not working with my private clients, teaching groups, or speaking, I am usually with my wife and two daughters playing and having as much fun as possible.

I’m a foodie at heart and can talk about food for hours. I love coffee, but only one!

Laughing (and hearing others laugh) is my favorite noise.

You loving yourself, your life, and your business more than you do now—that’s my mission.

WOW! BEST. YEAR. EV-ER!
Hey, Randy – it’s Margaux. I’m just calling to tell you that WOW! BEST. YEAR. EV-ER! Thanks to you I have an amazing career, I’m making really good money, I drive a Lexus RCF and here’s the best part Randy: I’m volunteering in Thailand at an elephant rescue in March because I really think that you should do something that you’ve never done before at least once a year. You know that saying, “Do something that scares you?” Last year it was an art retreat in Santa Rosa, this year I’m going to Thailand by myself, with a group of people to volunteer at an elephant rescue. And I had to absolutely share that with you because I adore you and love you and you changed my life! Love you!

Margaux

2017-12-12T05:17:00+00:00

Margaux

Hey, Randy – it’s Margaux. I’m just calling to tell you that WOW! BEST. YEAR. EV-ER! Thanks to you I have an amazing career, I’m making really good money, I drive a Lexus RCF and here’s the best part Randy: I’m volunteering in Thailand at an elephant rescue in March because I really think that you should do something that you’ve never done before at least once a year. You know that saying, “Do something that scares you?” Last year it was an art retreat in Santa Rosa, this year I’m going to Thailand by myself, with a group of people to volunteer at an elephant rescue. And I had to absolutely share that with you because I adore you and love you and you changed my life! Love you!
He is an extraordinary life coach and human being!
We were randomly searching for life coaches in our area when we found Randy's website. We felt a very strong pull to him and hoped he would have the room to see us. Considering my husband and I see Randy together, I have had the opportunity to practice supporting his flow as well as my own. We had lost our business and after 2+ years we found ourselves still licking our wounds, especially my husband who was fearful about how to get back on track. I was drained of energy and burdened by all the thoughts of the unknown. Randy has given us each some very helpful new tools and is never short on sharing advice that we can chomp on until the next time we meet. He is an extraordinary life coach and human being! He completely understands what holds people back from meeting their full potential and finding their purpose in life. I’ve freed myself from those old thought patterns and as a result I'm learning to be okay with creating time for myself and the things that are important to me.

Stacie Schechter - Care Manager

2017-12-12T05:15:22+00:00

Stacie Schechter - Care Manager

We were randomly searching for life coaches in our area when we found Randy's website. We felt a very strong pull to him and hoped he would have the room to see us. Considering my husband and I see Randy together, I have had the opportunity to practice supporting his flow as well as my own. We had lost our business and after 2+ years we found ourselves still licking our wounds, especially my husband who was fearful about how to get back on track. I was drained of energy and burdened by all the thoughts of the unknown. Randy has given us each some very helpful new tools and is never short on sharing advice that we can chomp on until the next time we meet. He is an extraordinary life coach and human being! He completely understands what holds people back from meeting their full potential and finding their purpose in life. I’ve freed myself from those old thought patterns and as a result I'm learning to be okay with creating time for myself and the things that are important to me.
His techniques refocused my energy…
I was uncomfortable to accept leadership roles or step into positions of power related to my work and experience. The best gift I received during my coaching is the ability to think about time in a way where I could still get all of my work done and be fully present without feeling tired and rushed. His techniques refocused my energy and, in return, I feel confident seeing myself as he and others see me. Having this confidence allowed for me to step into new leadership roles and consider additional opportunities like public speaking.

Eduardo Araiza Moreno, Northwest
Health Foundation Health & Education Program Officer

2017-12-12T12:52:46+00:00

Eduardo Araiza Moreno, Northwest
Health Foundation Health & Education Program Officer

I was uncomfortable to accept leadership roles or step into positions of power related to my work and experience. The best gift I received during my coaching is the ability to think about time in a way where I could still get all of my work done and be fully present without feeling tired and rushed. His techniques refocused my energy and, in return, I feel confident seeing myself as he and others see me. Having this confidence allowed for me to step into new leadership roles and consider additional opportunities like public speaking.
One of the biggest gifts of my life…
I was able to see my entire life in a new light, one that makes me appreciate every single thing I've lived through. Truly. And for that, I will be forever grateful to Randy. That was one of the biggest gifts of my life.
I've learned to see my past in a new light. I now have the ability to see discomfort and pain as an opportunity to get healthy and strong! I would tell them it's truly life changing. Randy has this uncanny ability to really, really see a person. And it doesn't stop there. Randy can then take what he sees, crystalize what that is in relatable language, and then help us figure out what's holding us back and what will propel us. My twenty plus years in therapy never got me anywhere close to where Randy got me in just a few sessions. His abilities are remarkable to say the least.

Robyn O'Neil - Artist

2017-12-12T05:19:40+00:00

Robyn O'Neil - Artist

I was able to see my entire life in a new light, one that makes me appreciate every single thing I've lived through. Truly. And for that, I will be forever grateful to Randy. That was one of the biggest gifts of my life. I've learned to see my past in a new light. I now have the ability to see discomfort and pain as an opportunity to get healthy and strong! I would tell them it's truly life changing. Randy has this uncanny ability to really, really see a person. And it doesn't stop there. Randy can then take what he sees, crystalize what that is in relatable language, and then help us figure out what's holding us back and what will propel us. My twenty plus years in therapy never got me anywhere close to where Randy got me in just a few sessions. His abilities are remarkable to say the least.
Nothing short of life changing…
I am much more hopeful and lighter in terms of emotional baggage and worry. I feel so different, more free and playful. I feel like my authentic self and it has been a long time since I have felt that way! He has changed how I think about myself and others. I know how I want to be present in this world! I was skeptical at first, wondering, is it worth it? Is it worth the money and time investment? I am here to tell you.......just go for it! What I have received and learned in just three sessions has been nothing short of life changing and I'm now excited to see what my future holds!

Brian R Fulsher - Real Estate Appraiser/Broker

2017-12-12T09:19:49+00:00

Brian R Fulsher - Real Estate Appraiser/Broker

I am much more hopeful and lighter in terms of emotional baggage and worry. I feel so different, more free and playful. I feel like my authentic self and it has been a long time since I have felt that way! He has changed how I think about myself and others. I know how I want to be present in this world! I was skeptical at first, wondering, is it worth it? Is it worth the money and time investment? I am here to tell you.......just go for it! What I have received and learned in just three sessions has been nothing short of life changing and I'm now excited to see what my future holds!
Working with Randy is a time you will cherish…
Randy's style of being gentle yet bold has helped me smooth out my rough edges. I'm taking more action with my business and gaining clarity on my messaging. Working with Randy is a time you will cherish and want to keep close as you navigate through life. Lessons learned will stick with you even after your time together ends.

Carol Lynn Lopez - Personal Development Coach, Author of Muck Off Book

2017-12-12T05:11:28+00:00

Carol Lynn Lopez - Personal Development Coach, Author of Muck Off Book

Randy's style of being gentle yet bold has helped me smooth out my rough edges. I'm taking more action with my business and gaining clarity on my messaging. Working with Randy is a time you will cherish and want to keep close as you navigate through life. Lessons learned will stick with you even after your time together ends.
Randy genuinely cares about people and you will get results.
I never played big around career. I was afraid of challenging myself to do more.
I've learned to identify old patterns, comfort zones, and old conditioning. When I start to feel small or insignificant, I remind myself—that, is not ME. I am strong, smart, intelligent and loved. My relationship with my boss got better and going to work everyday was no longer unpleasant. Randy genuinely cares about people and you WILL get results! I’d always feel that he was right there with me and felt what I was going through, helping to put things back in perspective. I always ended feeling amazing!

Veronica Angela Ram - Staff Accountant

2017-12-12T05:13:19+00:00

Veronica Angela Ram - Staff Accountant

I never played big around career. I was afraid of challenging myself to do more. I've learned to identify old patterns, comfort zones, and old conditioning. When I start to feel small or insignificant, I remind myself—that, is not ME. I am strong, smart, intelligent and loved. My relationship with my boss got better and going to work everyday was no longer unpleasant. Randy genuinely cares about people and you WILL get results! I’d always feel that he was right there with me and felt what I was going through, helping to put things back in perspective. I always ended feeling amazing!
He is empathic and brilliant and kind and compassionate…
In working towards living a more conscious life, Randy has taught me how to reduce my anxiety and feel more fulfillment and joy. I’ve learned skills that I can use literally anywhere (in my car, at my desk, in the shower, in a meeting) to calm my mind and bring me back into my body. I've learned that the body doesn't know time so I can still think that I'm experiencing a trauma from years back. I would say RUN - DON’T WALK. Randy is a gift to the world. He is empathic and brilliant and kind and compassionate. He is encouraging and so incredibly bright. I feel as though he truly reads my mind. I'm so grateful to have him in my life.

Camille Aveni - Executive Assistant

2017-12-12T12:54:45+00:00

Camille Aveni - Executive Assistant

In working towards living a more conscious life, Randy has taught me how to reduce my anxiety and feel more fulfillment and joy. I’ve learned skills that I can use literally anywhere (in my car, at my desk, in the shower, in a meeting) to calm my mind and bring me back into my body. I've learned that the body doesn't know time so I can still think that I'm experiencing a trauma from years back. I would say RUN - DON’T WALK. Randy is a gift to the world. He is empathic and brilliant and kind and compassionate. He is encouraging and so incredibly bright. I feel as though he truly reads my mind. I'm so grateful to have him in my life.
An incredibly gifted life coach…
Randy is an incredibly gifted life coach.  His intuition guides him and he is truly present in every moment.  I am a new life coach and have relied on Randy’s coaching and mentorship to empower me in my journey.  He has helped me to learn to trust myself and tap into my own intuition and power.

Liora Sponko

2017-10-27T22:20:20+00:00

Liora Sponko

Randy is an incredibly gifted life coach.  His intuition guides him and he is truly present in every moment.  I am a new life coach and have relied on Randy’s coaching and mentorship to empower me in my journey.  He has helped me to learn to trust myself and tap into my own intuition and power.
Helped me through major growth shifts…
I have known Randy for almost three years now, and I can say that during this time he has helped me through a few major growth shifts in my life.

Tash Jeffries

2017-10-27T22:29:06+00:00

Tash Jeffries

I have known Randy for almost three years now, and I can say that during this time he has helped me through a few major growth shifts in my life.
An approachable authenticity…
Randy is a rare soul on so many levels. He is deeply caring and has an approachable authenticity that is immediately engaging. I have loved every minute of working with Randy and can’t recommend him highly enough. He is a gentleman and a “gentle” man, qualities this world needs more of today. He has also garnered a depth of wisdom that comes from his own life experiences, and when he shares this wisdom, it never feels preachy, just sincere. And his warmth and intelligence is ever present. I value and appreciate our professional relationship and hope it continues for years to come.

Jeannie Ballew

2017-10-27T22:22:04+00:00

Jeannie Ballew

Randy is a rare soul on so many levels. He is deeply caring and has an approachable authenticity that is immediately engaging. I have loved every minute of working with Randy and can’t recommend him highly enough. He is a gentleman and a “gentle” man, qualities this world needs more of today. He has also garnered a depth of wisdom that comes from his own life experiences, and when he shares this wisdom, it never feels preachy, just sincere. And his warmth and intelligence is ever present. I value and appreciate our professional relationship and hope it continues for years to come.

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